As we drove into the parking lot at Mystic Marina on Friday afternoon, I quickly challenged Dan: are they here or did they leave? Dan guessed they had left; I said they would be at the dock! I was wrong! As we scanned the dock there was an empty slip where Rights of Man used to float. And all weekend long (not because I lost the bet) I kept processing: Jack and Marcia are underway… where are they now?
is it as they imagined? do they have everything they need? is the weather favorable?
on and on….
My face to face relationship with “real” cruisers is very limited! Dan and I met Bob and Loralei in our marina last fall. They have a boat in New York and one in the islands. They spend the hurricane season locally but have, as they pointed out, been sailing around the world one port at a time. They have made a series of passages by chartering a vessel in a specific location and going to their destination. They were very knowledgeable and were willing to guide us with tips they had learned along the way. Then we met Jack and Marcia. They, like us, had the dream but had not left port. Over the winter we exchanged “finds” that each of us had made to ease the unknowns we were about to explore. Right before they left we witnessed the mounting frenzy that I could only imagine. Their departure struck a place deep inside of me; I have never doubted that we are going. It is coming soon.
Our blog readings from other adventurers give us useful information; at least a set of questions to research. When categorizing our style of travel we agreed that we wish to be self-sufficient in relationship to our energy needs. If the definition of a yacht is a vessel that can make ice, we have not been driven by that motivation. Now that our solar panels are placed and we are charging our batteries we can better assess our energy usage. If our essential needs are met (auto helm, lights, music, navigation equipment…), there may yet be room for a rum and Coke, on ice! From our review of Gypsy’s systems I have learned far more than I ever have known about a boat! Dan amazes me every day. He has an innate feel for the wind and sea and how a vessel moves through that environment. What he claims is new to him is installing solar panels, refining Mr Beke (our engine), setting up our Modem and securing the licenses that are necessary to operation our HAM radio and single side ban. As is true to his nature, he assesses the problem, researches the information he needs to make decisions, and then calmly and with the confidence of being as well prepared as one can be, moves forward.
Yes, the time for us to leave on this adventure is fast approaching; it really does happen as witnessed by the departure of our fellow sailors. The questions I asked about Jack and Marcia: is it as they imagined? do they have everything they need? is the weather favorable? - questions that I ponder - that can only be answered for susan once we have set sail. I feel ready for those questions to be answered; ready to modify and adjust as one does on the path of life. Simplifying our way of being on the earth is core to Dan and me. Each mastery of an unfamiliar task fuels our confidence. Dan and susan are going on a trip and on their trip they are going to take…