The journey reconsidered – susan & dan

It’s a process, a work in progress, this trip that we’re on and it’s getting even more interesting as we go. We’re focusing on the journey, not the destination and that seems to be making all the difference. The most important thing we’ve done so far is to “burn our bridges”. We sold our houses and almost all our possessions and we’re both committed to not returning to Connecticut. After that it’s wide open.
We’ve been rethinking the scope of our cruising plans lately and pondering how our cruising fits into and supports the next phase of our lives, which will be land based. We’ve noticed that the cruising lifestyle, while tremendously liberating and empowering does have its own unique confines. Chief among those is our responsibility to the boat and our extreme dependence on weather and weather patterns. Also being people with a strongly ingrained work ethic, there is a little nagging voice going off in the back of our minds telling us that we should be doing something more productive and redeeming. The voice goes on to say that discovering beautiful deserted beaches and exploring new rum drinks don’t count. Bummer! So we’re considering curtailing our long-term sailing plan. We may not go around the world but instead may keep our cruising to the confines of the Caribbean, a not too shabby neighborhood.
The driver for this decision will be the answer to the question we’ve been asking ourselves lately - where in the world would we live if we you could pick anywhere? It is an extremely relevant question when you consider how much, where you live, affects the quality of your life. But what are those qualities and how are they affected? Qualify that and we should be well on the way to developing our answer to the first question.
At this stage of our lives the important qualities are (in no particular order): community, cost of living, geography (stimulation), climate (comfortable), culture, diversity, access to wilderness, healthcare, infrastructure, taxes, safety (crime). But perhaps I’m being too analytical, as even I’m starting to yawn. So let me backtrack a little. I’ll envision the perfect place where I’d like to live and then describe what I see.
The land. It should be huge, not small. And diverse with a wide range of geographic features and climate zones within easy driving distance. It should stimulate ones curiosity enough to want to excursion out and explore often. A place that draws one out for long drives, bike rides, kayaking and hikes. A place that makes one wonder and want to learn more about the creatures and plants that inhabit the region. The land should also be fertile and able to produce vegetables for a kitchen garden.
Next is the climate; not too hot that one needs air-conditioning to survive or too cold that it goes subzero in winter. A little snow would be all right, but just enough for atmosphere, not so much that you have to plow & shovel.

Community; A population that has a positive sense of themselves and at the same time is open to new ideas. A community who takes pride in itself and takes care of its members. One that is made up of a healthy mix of ethnicities. A community with strong social and environmental values.
Culture; When I think of culture two kinds come to mind and are important. First is the culture of the people who inhabit the region. Hopefully it would be strong and rich with an interesting history that has continuity with the present. The second kind refers to artistic and musical climate. Hopefully the area would be rich with artists, craftspeople, theater, live music and dance.
A house; we intentionally don’t have a clear vision of the house as of yet. It should be energy efficient. We’d also like the inside living area to extend and meld with the outside as much as possible. One random detail; I’d love to incorporate a generous skylight above the master bed. We’ve often been sleeping under Gypsy’s large foredeck hatch and I’ve come to love watching the stars before falling to sleep at night. Dan has built one house and would love to build another. That house was attractive, comfortable and successfully passive solar. Were hoping the next house, along with being environmentally friendly, will be uniquely interesting, and with some luck, magical. Made mostly of natural materials, it must fit in with and complement the land, which is why we don’t know what the house would look like, as we haven’t chosen the land yet.
Safety, healthcare & infrastructure are what we think of as “maintenance” items. They must be considered, need to be present and functional but I don’t see them being big decision drivers.
Taxes; something that we don’t see as a big decision driver. Where we end up living must be affordable to us and taxes along with healthcare cost and land cost are all a part of that mix that when added all together must not break our budget.
Country; This is a big one. Although an American citizen, we don’t feel obliged to live there and am open to settling in another country. There can be a lot of advantages to settling abroad such as; increased buying power due to favorable exchange rates with some countries, better healthcare, built in cultural opportunities. That said we find it hard to imagine living happily in a land where we don’t share common cultural and historical references. we also feel uncomfortable about exploiting the favorable exchange rates. It seems to encourage a colonial like attitude in the expats who practice it and develop an unhealthy dependency of the locals on an anomalous inflow of foreign currency.
So where does that leave us? We intend to do two things; 1) Continue cruising Gypsy, exploring the lands and waters of the Caribbean for the time being. It’s been wondrous fun so far, and we’ll continue as long as its suits us. 2) We’ll also continue exploring and playing with the idea of “place” and how it relates to us. It’s an important interesting question. One that I’m sure will benefit careful consideration over time.
We’re currently anchored next to the highest hill on Stocking Island. It’s a very steep hill and at the top sits an obelisk. On top of that monument an osprey has a made well-made nest. From that nest that osprey has a grand view of the harbor to the west, the wide-open sea to the east and comes and goes as she pleases. What a splendid home that bird has made.